The Mirror Check - Husbands In Pursuit

The Mirror Check: A Personal Accountability & Growth Workbook Activity

Sometimes the most difficult person to confront is the man looking back at you in the mirror.

The Mirror Check is a practical six-page workbook designed to help husbands examine recurring behaviors, recognize their impact, take responsibility, and identify meaningful steps toward change. Through honest reflection and guided writing exercises, participants move beyond good intentions and repeated apologies toward visible, consistent growth.

Inside this printable workbook:

• Five focused Mirror Check questions

• Four self-assessment response options for each question

• Guided reflection and generous writing space

• The “Choose Your Mirror” personal challenge

• The SEE IT. OWN IT. CHANGE IT. accountability exercise

• A seven-day accountability tracker

• A personal commitment page

• Broderick’s final challenge

This activity encourages men to consider questions such as:

• What concern does my wife repeatedly raise that I keep dismissing?

• Do I acknowledge when I am wrong, or immediately shift the blame?

• Have I repeatedly apologized for a behavior without making meaningful changes?

• Can the people closest to me tell me the truth without fearing my reaction?

• Am I willing to listen when my wife identifies an area where I need to grow?

The goal is not shame, blame, or perfection. It is honest self-awareness, mature ownership, and intentional change.

The Mirror Check can be completed privately, used as part of a Husbands in Pursuit™ meeting, or incorporated into a men’s accountability group, marriage workshop, or personal growth session.

Product details:

• Digital PDF download

• Six print-ready pages

• US Letter size: 8.5 × 11 inches

• Designed for personal reflection and handwritten responses

• No physical product will be shipped

SEE IT. OWN IT. CHANGE IT.

Which question challenges you the most—and what are you willing to do about it?