Your First Family Court Hearing — What to Expect and How to Prepare

Walking into a family court hearing for the first time is one of the most daunting experiences a person can face. This free guide tells you exactly what to expect — in plain English, with no legal jargon.

Written by a qualified non-practising solicitor who has also been a litigant in person himself, this guide covers everything you need to know before, during, and after your first hearing.

What's inside:

Before the hearing — the MIAM, CAFCASS call, Form FM5, and position statement

What the family court looks like and who will be in the room

The FHDRA explained — what the judge is trying to achieve and how it unfolds

What to say — including example scripts for common situations

Your McKenzie Friend — what they can and cannot do

After the hearing — orders, directions, and next steps

A full pre-hearing checklist: one week before, the day before, on the day

30 pages · 8 chapters · England & Wales · Updated 2025

This guide is for general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every case is different. For support specific to your situation, visit equaljustice.legal for a free 10-minute scoping call.