Lets Talk About Sex Conversation Cards (expansion pack)

Some conversations make us laugh. Some reveal something we never knew. Some help us finally say what we’ve struggled to put into words.

Let’s Talk About Sex Baby makes room for all of them.

These 80 research-informed questions invite couples to explore pleasure, desire, curiosity and the emotional connection surrounding sex. From flirting, fantasies and playful possibilities to expectations, rejection, pressure and rebuilding intimacy, the cards create an opportunity to understand each other more deeply.

Take turns guessing your partner’s answer, then listen as they share what fits, what doesn’t and what you haven’t discovered yet. Other cards invite you to share directly or explore a question together. You can always choose to share rather than be guessed about.

Whether you’re enjoying your sexual connection, navigating differences, finding your way back or discovering what feels right in a new season, there is room to begin where you are.

What’s included

• 80 conversation questions across nine categories

• Nine category introduction cards with guidance and optional experiences

• Instructions and research references

• A 31-page single-sided PDF

• A 58-page double-sided PDF with matching category backs and a printing guide

Both versions are designed for A4 printing, with four cards per card page.

What will we explore?

Flirting, Fun & Us

What Sex Means to Me

Desire, Timing & Initiation

Pleasure, Bodies & Being Present

Curiosity, Fantasy & Possibility

Feeling Close, Feeling Safe

The Hard Things: Pressure, Shame & Hurt

Finding Our Way Back

What We Want to Create Together

Connection without pressure

There are no scores, required disclosures or expectations to act on anything you discuss. Sharing a curiosity or fantasy does not mean agreeing to try it, and conversation creates no expectation of sex afterwards.

The more sensitive section is clearly labelled, with encouragement to pause or seek support when needed.

Research-informed

Created by counsellor Julie Wain, drawing on Gottman’s Love Maps and research into sexual communication, partner responsiveness, desire differences and sexual motivation. Sources are included in the PDF.

These are original conversation prompts, rather than a clinically validated programme or a substitute for individual, relationship or medical care.

Use it on its own or alongside Conversations for Couples. The original deck is not required.

AUD $14.99 · Both printing versions included.

Digital PDF download for adult couples. No physical product will be sent.