The Covenant Marriage Library: 7 Christian Marriage Books, Say It Gently & 3 Bonuses

Every hard question. One gentle library.

For Christian husbands and wives · a book for every season, from drifting to healing.

We share a home, but we live like roommates.

I stopped asking, and we never talk about it.

I don’t know which problem to face first. And I’ve prayed for years, and God feels quiet.

Every marriage is in a different season. The library has a book for each one, and you choose where to start.

One book rarely covers the whole story

A marriage that has gone quiet usually has more than one thread to it: a body that has changed, a hurt that was never spoken, a question about what God really asks, a prayer that seems unanswered. Buying one book at a time, you can end up guessing which thread to pull first.

The whole collection, in one place

The Covenant Marriage Library brings together all seven books of The Threefold Cord Collection, the conversation kit Say It Gently, and three bonuses you can only get here. Every book is written for husbands and wives (The God Who Sees Me is written for women), every Scripture is quoted word for word from the King James Version, and none of them blames one side or makes promises God didn’t make.

$182 value, yours for $89. You save $93 (51%).

Where to start: find your sentence

• “We feel like roommates, and I miss us” → Come Together Again
• “I’m carrying this marriage alone” → Is It Still a Marriage?
• “I long to be clean and whole again” → Undefiled
• “A man hurt me deeply, and I need to heal” → The God Who Sees Me
• “We’re both ready to try again, together” → Thirty Evenings Back to Each Other
• “Where are we, and what do I do first?” → The Intimacy Health Check
• “I keep praying, and God feels silent” → When God Is Silent
• “I don’t know how to even bring it up” → Say It Gently

Inside the library, you’ll discover…

• Why Christian couples drift, what 1 Corinthians 7:3–5 asks of both of you, and the full path back to closeness (Come Together Again)
• What covenant really means, the main Christian views on divorce and remarriage set out fairly, and how to find God’s peace either way (Is It Still a Marriage?)
• What Hebrews 13:4 warns against, and what holy, joyful, shame-free intimacy looks like, with no graphic words (Undefiled)
• Healing for the woman a man has deeply hurt: forgiveness that isn’t excusing, boundaries and a safety plan (The God Who Sees Me)
• Thirty short evenings to do together, with the words already written and no evening ending in an expectation (Thirty Evenings Back to Each Other)
• A private check for each of you, your stage of drift named honestly, and a roadmap to one first step (The Intimacy Health Check)
• Thirty days of honest lament and hope for the seasons when heaven feels quiet (When God Is Silent)
• Scripts, letters and a 21-day plan for the first gentle conversation (Say It Gently)
• 24 date nights for long-married couples, most costing little, including evenings for seasons of illness or rest (bonus)
• A 90-day journal of prayer, thanks and small steps that ends in renewing your vows (bonus)
• 52 weekly prayers to say aloud together, from gratitude to hard seasons (bonus)

What’s included

The seven books (each as a colour PDF and a printer-friendly PDF)

• Come Together Again: 202 pages, 12 chapters, 9 worksheets, 22 conversation cards, a 30-day plan ($29)
• Is It Still a Marriage?: 202 pages, 12 chapters, 9 worksheets including a safety plan, 16 question cards for your pastor or counselor ($24)
• Undefiled: 202 pages, 12 chapters, 8 worksheets including a rededication covenant, 18 conversation cards ($24)
• The God Who Sees Me: 179 pages, 12 chapters, 8 worksheets including a safety plan, 22 “Who I Am in Christ” cards ($24)
• Thirty Evenings Back to Each Other: 183 pages, 30 guided evenings, 7 worksheets, 24 conversation cards ($29)
• The Intimacy Health Check: 182 pages, 12 chapters, 7 private checks, 5 worksheets, 12 conversation cards ($19)
• When God Is Silent: 163 pages, a 30-day devotional, 4 worksheets, 12 prayer cards ($14)

Plus

• Say It Gently: The Conversation Kit for Christian Marriages: scripts, letters, a 21-day plan and 48 cards ($19)

Bundle-only bonuses (colour and printer-friendly PDFs)

• Twenty-Four Date Nights for Long-Married Couples: 24 one-page date nights, most costing little, plus a year planner
• The Ninety-Day Covenant Renewal Journal: 13 weeks of prayer, thanks and small steps, ending in a vow renewal
• A Year of Prayer for Two: 52 weekly prayers to say aloud together, each with one small step

Format: instant PDF downloads · books in large 14-point type · printer-friendly editions · KJV Scripture · every story is a composite, with names and details changed. Nothing ships, and nothing arrives at your house.

This library is for you if…

• You want the whole collection, so you can start where your marriage is today
• You want help written for husbands and wives, without blame
• You want Scripture honestly taught, with no curses or false promises
• You want tools to use: checks, scripts, worksheets, cards and plans
• You’d like to read alone first, and share it when the time is right
• You want gentle practice after the reading: date nights, a journal, prayers

This library is not for you yet if…

You are afraid of your spouse or being pressured or harmed. Please start with safety. The books will wait, and The God Who Sees Me and Is It Still a Marriage? will be there when you are safe.

Your safety first: National Domestic Violence Hotline (US): call 1-800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.org. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988). 911 in an emergency. Outside the US: findahelpline.com. Abuse is not God's design for marriage, and no one is required to stay in danger.

A note on health: many intimacy problems have medical causes, from menopause and erectile difficulties to pain, depression and medicines. Please see a doctor. These books are not medical advice, counseling or legal advice.

A note from the author

Each book in this library answers questions you asked in the comments, from “Why did we drift?” to “Is this still a marriage?”

None of them blames one side, and none makes promises God didn’t make. You won’t find curses, fear or hype here. You will find Scripture quoted word for word, research that has been checked, and a next step at the end of every chapter.

The library brings them together, so you can start where you are and keep going. Read alone first if you need to. Share a book when the time is right. And when the hardest reading is done, the three bonuses are there to help you enjoy each other again.

The Exiled Storyteller

About refunds

Because this is an instant digital download, all sales are final. If anything goes wrong with your files, write to us and we’ll make it right.

Questions you may have

Where do I start?

Find your sentence in the "Where to start" list above. If you’re not sure, start with The Intimacy Health Check: its roadmap points you to the right next book.

Is any of it explicit?

No. Every book is tasteful and church-appropriate. Intimacy is discussed with reverent, discreet words, never graphic ones.

Can we read it together?

Yes. Most books work alone or as a couple; Thirty Evenings Back to Each Other, A Year of Prayer for Two and the date nights are made to be done together. The God Who Sees Me is written for women to read on their own.

What if my spouse isn’t willing?

Many readers start alone, and every book has steps one spouse can take. Say It Gently gives you the words to open the subject without a fight.

Is it a physical book? Can I print it?

No, everything is an instant PDF download. Every book and bonus comes with a printer-friendly edition, so you can print as much or as little as you like. Nothing is posted to your home.

I already bought one of the books. Can I upgrade?

If you bought a book in the last 14 days, look for the upgrade offer that appears after checkout and in your receipt email. It takes what you paid off the library’s price.

What if our situation is serious?

Please put safety first and use the numbers above. Every book has a "When to Get More Help" section that explains when to see a doctor, a licensed Christian counselor or your pastor.

Begin today

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$182 value, yours for $89.