The Ready For Love WorkBook

Most singles rehearse the wedding and skip the self.

They can picture the dress and the first dance — and they have never once examined the person who will still be there on an ordinary Tuesday three years in. The Ready for Love Workbook exists to change that, before a relationship ever begins.

Built on the R.E.A.D.Y. framework — Rooted, Examined, Aware, Developed, and Yielded — this workbook walks you through the honest, unglamorous, deeply hopeful work of becoming ready for marriage. Not perfect. Ready. Whole enough, healed enough, clear enough, and skilled enough to build a life with another imperfect person.

Inside you will face the 34 blind spots that quietly end good relationships — first as a mirror held up to yourself, then as a screen for reading a person you might one day date, while it is still cheap to walk away. You will trace the patterns you inherited from home, trade the fantasy of marriage for the reality, learn to tell a true non-negotiable from a mere preference, and practice the relational muscles a never-dated heart has never had to use.

The workbook closes with the R.E.A.D.Y. Self-Assessment — a scored tool that hands you your two weakest pillars and a ninety-day plan, to retake with the change of each season and watch your readiness rise.



An editable, printable Word document, written by Apostle Dr. Elisha K.A. from more than thirty years of counseling singles and couples. Part of the Singleness to Vows collection.