Two Houses

Two people, two houses. This workbook takes the House of Self — what your life is built on, what protects you, what you let in, how you see, and the meaning you live under — and works it for a couple. You each map your own house first, separately, and then you look at what happens where the two meet.

An 88-page couples workbook across nine sections, including the difference between a request and a boundary, earned and unearned access, what an apology is actually for, and a section on holding a limit when saying it out loud is not safe. Every worked example is written for two people.

Fillable on your computer, or print it and write by hand.