What to Say When... A Go-To Phrase Guide for Early Childhood Educators

Hey Educators! Ever Struggled to Find the Right Words?

You know those moments when a child is upset, won’t listen, or a transition isn’t going smoothly—and you think, What do I say now?

I was there in 2007 and I wish I had this guide...

It took me 17+ years to collect these phrases and compile them together.

This guide is here to help. "What to Say When…" is a practical, go-to resource full of real, respectful phrases for everyday moments in early childhood education. No fluff, no gimmicks—just simple, effective language to help you feel confident and prepared.

What’s Inside?

✔ Practical, everyday phrases that support connection, cooperation, and emotional development

✔ Modern, positive language aligned with EYLF, ACECQA, and Positive Guidance strategies

✔ Real scenarios covered, such as

• Transitions (moving from play to meals, inside to outside, rest time)
• Supporting big emotions (tantrums, frustration, separation anxiety)
• Encouraging participation (group time, storytelling, listening skills)
• Helping children with friendships, turn-taking, and problem-solving
• Positive behaviour guidance without power struggles
• Supporting non-verbal and EAL learners

Why You’ll Find It Useful

✔ Takes the guesswork out of tricky moments

✔ Helps build trust and cooperation with children

✔ Reduces stress so you can focus on teaching, not figuring out what to say

✔ Easy to use—print it, save it, or keep it handy for quick reference



📥 Instant digital download – available now for $14.99.

This is the resource I wish I had when I started in ECEC. Hope it makes your days a little smoother. 🚀

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