The Beneficiary Audit Kit
Here is the fact that shocks most people: the beneficiary form you signed years ago — on a piece of paper you barely remember — overrides anything your will says.
If your will names your current spouse, but your 401(k) form from 1997 still lists your ex-spouse, your ex-spouse receives the 401(k). The will does not matter.
74% of retirement account holders have not reviewed their beneficiary designations in five or more years. A third of those discover material errors when finally prompted to check — a deceased beneficiary still listed, an ex-spouse who should have been removed, percentages that don't total 100%.
This kit walks you through a complete audit in one sitting, with phone scripts for every major custodian.
WHAT'S INSIDE — 24 PAGES:
- Why beneficiary forms override wills (and the list of accounts this applies to)
- Primary vs contingent beneficiary rules
- Per stirpes vs per capita — the critical distinction
- What happens if you name "my estate" (catastrophic)
- What happens if you name a minor child directly (nightmare)
- The SECURE Act 10-year rule explained
- Spousal rollover rights
- Full 8-red-flag chapter — the most common errors
- Comprehensive fill-in audit form covering every account type:
— 401(k), 403(b), 457, Traditional IRA, Roth IRA, pension, SEP-IRA, SIMPLE IRA
— Every type of life insurance and annuity
— TOD brokerage, POD bank, HSA, 529 plans
- Step-by-step update instructions for Fidelity, Vanguard, Schwab
- Phone numbers and form codes for Prudential, MetLife, New York Life, State Farm, Northwestern Mutual, AIG
- Special situations chapter covering blended families (QTIP trusts), special needs beneficiaries, spendthrift trusts, non-citizen spouses (QDOTs), charitable beneficiaries
- Four ready-to-use phone call scripts
- Annual re-audit template
- Printable one-page summary your family will find in the drawer when they need it
THREE REAL CASE STUDIES:
- Harold (ex-wife from 1990s inherited $400,000 from a never-updated 401(k))
- Patricia (12-year-old son put in probate court for 6 years, $200K eaten in legal fees)
- David & Joan (the "my estate" checkbox cost the family $192,000)
WHO IT'S FOR:
- Anyone who has been married and divorced at any point
- Anyone whose beneficiary designations are older than 5 years
- Widows and widowers who need to update their own forms now that their spouse is gone
- Parents of minor children planning for inheritance
- Anyone with significant retirement accounts they plan to pass on
FORMAT: PDF, 24 pages, instant download. Readable on any device.
All content is educational reference material and is explicitly not personalized financial, legal, or tax advice.
Written by Rabbi Mizrahi.