The Autism IEP Handbook — A 56-Page Parent Guide to ABA, Behavior, Sensory Needs, Transition Planning & More
You are walking into that meeting.
Maybe you've been to dozens of IEP meetings and still leave feeling like you
missed something. Maybe this is your first, and you don't know what you don't
know. Maybe you've been advocating hard for years and you're tired of being
the only person in the room who prepared.
This handbook was written for you.
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The Understood Autism IEP Handbook is a 56-page downloadable guide covering
every aspect of the IEP process specific to autism families — from ABA therapy
and behavior intervention plans to sensory profiles, social skills groups, and
transition planning to adulthood.
It was written by a parent who spent years in IEP rooms learning what she
wished someone had simply told her when her son was first diagnosed.
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WHAT'S INSIDE:
A personal letter from the author — including her family's journey from ADHD
diagnosis to autism diagnosis at age 8, through ABA, social skills groups, and
now a 17-year-old who is beginning to understand himself.
A Quick Start page — 6 must-knows and 5 must-ask questions specific to autism
IEPs, plus the follow-up email strategy that creates a paper trail and
dramatically reduces miscommunication.
12 CHAPTERS COVERING:
• IEP foundations and key terminology
• How autism qualifies under IDEA — levels, eligibility, co-occurring
conditions including ADHD
• Common services: speech therapy, OT, social skills, counseling, assistive
technology, one-on-one aides, and ESY
• ABA therapy: how it works, what the research says, different perspectives
acknowledged, a 6-step insurance access guide, and Medicaid waiver info
• Social skills groups: school-based and private options, the PEERS program,
and how to find providers
• Behavior in the classroom: FBA explained with the ABC framework, the 4
functions of behavior, BIP components, 8 questions to ask, and your rights
around restraint and seclusion
• Autism-specific IEP goals: communication, social, behavioral, sensory,
self-care, academic, and transition
• Accommodations and modifications by category: sensory, communication,
social, academic, and transition
• Sensory needs: hyper vs. hypo sensitivity, the 7-sense profile, and the
sensory diet explained
• Transition planning: education, employment, independent living, vocational
rehab, DD services, SSI, and ABLE accounts
• A 10-question autism FAQ covering late diagnosis, stimming, meltdowns,
ABA through school, and more
• 10 autism-specific advocacy phrases: what to say, when, and exactly why
it works
7 WORKSHEETS × 3 FULL YEARS OF USE:
• Sensory Profile Tracker (all 7 senses with over/under-responsive columns)
• Behavior Log (ABC format: antecedent, behavior, consequence)
• Meeting Prep Planner (autism-specific: services, sensory, priority questions)
• IEP Meeting Notes
• Services Tracker
• Goals Progress Tracker (6 goals, 3 progress checkpoints, end-of-year boxes)
• Home-School Communication Log (18 rows per year)
Plus: before/after meeting checklists, 3 lined notes pages, closing page.
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This handbook pairs with the General IEP Handbook — available separately or
as a discounted bundle. If you are new to IEPs entirely, the General Handbook
covers the foundational process; this one goes deep on everything autism-specific.
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Format: Instant download PDF — 59 pages, US Letter, print-at-home or digital
Who it's for: Parents and caregivers of autistic children navigating the US
public school IEP process
About Understood: A parent-to-parent IEP resource. Not a law firm. Not a
school district. A parent, telling another parent what took years to learn.