The Relationship: Magic or Mess?

The Relationship: Magic or Mess? Stop Settling. Start Living.

You’re here because something in you knows—this isn’t the love you were meant for.

Maybe you lie awake at night, replaying conversations, justifying their excuses, or swallowing your own truth to “keep the peace.” Maybe you’ve convinced yourself that “this is just how relationships are,” that passion fades, that compromise means erasing parts of yourself to accommodate others. Maybe you’re terrified that if you ask for more, you’ll lose everything—or worse, confirm what you already fear: this is as good as it gets.

Here’s a truth: You’re not crazy. You’re not “too demanding.” And you are not powerless.

The Relationship: Magic or Mess? is your raw, unflinching opportunity to look at an emotional mirror—the one you’ve avoided because you knew what you’d see. Inside these pages, you won’t find clichés, empty affirmations, or another list of “communication tips” to bandage a bleeding wound. You’ll find the questions you’ve been too afraid to ask, the answers you’ve been too terrified to hear, and the permission you’ve never given yourself: to demand the love you actually deserve.

This is where you stop pretending. Where you stop waiting for them to change. Where you finally admit—out loud—whether you’re building a life or just killing time.

This is for you if:

✔️ You’ve ever silenced your needs to avoid “rocking the boat.” 

✔️ You’ve lied to friends (or yourself) to protect the illusion of happiness. 

✔️ You’ve wondered, “Is this really it?” while scrolling through photos of couples who seem… lighter. Freer. 

✔️ You’re exhausted from performing, pleasing, and praying for crumbs of the love you know exists.

What you’ll get:

🔥 Brutal honesty—no spiritual bypassing, no toxic positivity. Just the hard questions that will crack open the lies you’ve been living. 

💔 Clarity like a gut-punch: Exercises so sharp they’ll make you cry, rage, or finally see—this isn’t about “fixing” your relationship. It’s about deciding if you even want to. 

🌱 The courage to choose: Stay and fight for real change, or walk away with your soul intact. (Spoiler: Both require you to stop betraying yourself.)

This isn’t about “saving” your relationship. It’s about saving you.

Why $197?

Because the cost of staying stuck is everything. Because you’ve already paid in tears, in swallowed words, in the slow death of your joy. Because $197 is the price of your freedom—and you’re worth every penny.

What’s inside?

• The Self-Check That Shatters Denial: Are you staying out of love—or fear? (The answer might destroy you. Or set you free.)
• The Respect Audit: Where are your boundaries? Oh wait—you don’t have any. (We’ll fix that.)
• The Future Test: Close your eyes and imagine your life in five years. Is this person in it? Why?
• The Warning Signs You’ve Ignored: The patterns you’ve excused, the red flags you’ve called “quirks,” the way you’ve shrunk to fit inside someone else’s idea of love.

This workbook will:

✨ Make you angry—at them, at yourself, at the world that taught you to settle. 

✨ Make you cry—for the love you’ve never had, for the years you’ve wasted, for the person you forgot you were. 

✨ Make you choose—because indecision is still a choice, and it’s killing you softly.

Who am I to ask you these questions?

I’m Chase Murphy, Jr., and I am a man that made a decision to live and love in ways that no one, not a single person, ever taught me how to do (literally). And in choosing to love and live, to truly love and to live, I had to learn how to do it. I had to learn how to do it on terms that made sense to me—for the first time ever in my life. 

I’ve built a love so alive it makes me giggle like a kid. I know what’s possible, because I’ve lived it—and I know what you’re tolerating, because I’ve been there too.

This workbook is not for the faint of heart. It’s for the ones who are done with half-love, half-truths, and half-lived lives.

It’s for you. If you’re ready.

Your relationship isn’t the problem.

Your refusal to confront it is.

Buy now. Before another year slips by in the gray. 

P.S. If you’re not ready for the truth, close this page. But if you’re done with the mess? Let’s make some magic. 💥

“I’m ready to choose me.”

Say it. Believe it. Live it.

No refunds. No excuses. Just results—for those brave enough to face them.