The Crisis Calm Plan

There is a kind of moment when nothing in your head is working. Not a clinical crisis, necessarily — sometimes that, sometimes just a hard hour, a hard afternoon, a day that arrived sideways and will not let you out. The version of you who is in that moment is not the version who can think clearly about what to do. That is the whole problem.

This plan is for that moment.

It is written in two voices. The questions are written by the version of you who is struggling and needs help. The answers are written by the version of you who is reading this now, while things are steady enough to think. You fill it in once. You keep it somewhere you will find it. And later, when you reach for it, the work is already done.

What is in the plan

Nine sections. You will not need them all at once. You may not need most of them most days. The point is that they exist before you need them.

01 — What is happening, naming it 02 — The first ten minutes 03 — What I cannot do today 04 — Who to call, in order 05 — The food and the water 06 — What helps me, that I forget 07 — What I am not allowed to decide today 08 — What to tell people who ask 09 — When this passes

Plus an opening on how to use it, and a closing note for the next time.

Format

PDF, US Letter, thirteen pages. Designed to be filled in by hand or digitally. Designed to be read on a phone in a moment when reading is hard. Designed so that any single section, opened on its own, makes sense without the rest.

What this will not do

It will not make a crisis stop. It will not replace a therapist, a doctor, a friend, or a phone call. It will reduce the number of decisions you have to make during a hard moment. That is what it is for. That is enough.

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