The Weight of Wrong Choices

The Weight of Wrong Choices

A True Story — Revised Edition

Living With the Scars of Disobedience, Yet Finding Healing in God's Grace

What happens when you follow your heart instead of seeking God's direction? I know what it is like to look back at a decision and wish you had listened to God first.

I entered a relationship believing in love, overlooking warning signs I should have taken seriously. What I didn't know was how much of the past had been kept from me. After we married, painful truths began to surface. Betrayal after betrayal exposed a reality I had never imagined for my life. I found myself carrying anger, regret, broken trust, and wounds that seemed impossible to heal.

Years later, just when I thought some of those wounds had begun to fade, another betrayal reopened them. Then the past resurfaced in an unexpected way, even reaching into the lives of my children. I reached a point where I didn't know how much more I could endure.

But that wasn't the end of my story.

In the middle of the pain, God began teaching me about surrender, forgiveness, wisdom, boundaries, and a grace that doesn't disappear when we face the consequences of our choices. Then, quietly and gradually, I began to see God moving in ways I could never have accomplished on my own.

The Weight of Wrong Choices is not a story about having a perfect life or making perfect decisions. It is my true story of disobedience, consequences, betrayal, brokenness, prayer, and the unexpected ways God's grace can begin restoring what seems beyond repair.

If you've ever regretted a decision you made without seeking God, ignored warning signs because your heart wanted something badly, carried the weight of betrayal or broken trust, or wondered whether God could still redeem what went wrong, perhaps this story is for you.

Your past may be real. Your scars may be deep. But your story is not finished.

Get your copy of The Weight of Wrong Choices and walk with me through the story of how God met me in the consequences of my choices—and began writing a new chapter through His grace.