Now Make It Work: The Mine, Yours & Ours Audit

When a relationship keeps hurting, “Who is to blame?” is usually the least useful question!

This 46-page fillable and printable workbook helps you separate:

• What belongs to you

• What belongs to them

• What the two of you keep creating together

Inside, you’ll work through the Mine, Yours & Ours Audit, the Event vs Emergency check, Green–Yellow–Red signals, the NINA method, your inner saboteur, recurring relationship loops, repair conversations, boundaries and your personal Capacity Audit.

Use it after a conflict, inside a confusing relationship pattern, or whenever you can understand both sides—but still have no idea what to do next.

You can type directly into the PDF and save your answers, or print it and work through it by hand.

Created by Nina Charlotte Sarr—writer, psychological counsellor, systemic and Co-Active coach, and mediator.

For personal use only. This workbook offers guided self-reflection and coaching tools; it is not therapy, medical or emergency support.