Coaching Kids Soccer - Teaching Respect Through the Game

Good Practice in Kids’ Soccer - Teaching Respect Through the Game

Food for Thought for Rec and Parent Coaches (Ages 4–8)

Good practice in kids’ soccer has very little to do with soccer itself.

At young ages, children are learning how to behave before they are learning how to play. They notice adult reactions, tone, and body language long before they understand positions, tactics, or results.

This guide focuses on the everyday habits and behaviors that shape a child’s experience of the game. It is not about rules or discipline. It is about modeling respect, empathy, and calm behavior so children feel safe, supported, and confident.

Written from real life experience around rec soccer, this guide is designed to support parent and volunteer coaches in the moments that matter most.

This guide covers:

• Why behavior matters more than results at young ages

• How children learn respect through adult actions

• Good practice during games and after the final whistle

• Simple habits that promote sportsmanship

• Language coaches can use with players and parents

• How calm behavior supports enjoyment and confidence

Who this guide is for:

• Rec and parent soccer coaches

• Volunteer coaches working with ages 4 to 8

• Coaches who want soccer to teach positive life skills

What this guide is not:

• A coaching manual

• A tactics or drills guide

• Club policy or discipline rules

Take what fits your environment and leave the rest.

Format:

• Digital PDF

• Instant download

A Final Thought:

When children feel respected, the game becomes something they want to return to.