Steps in the Right Direction: 28 Brutal Truths Every Non-Biological Parent Needs to Hear (Before It’s Too Late)

Are You Ready to Join a Blended Family—Or Just Think You Are?



Becoming a stepparent isn’t just a role—it’s a responsibility that reshapes lives, dynamics, and hearts. Steps in the Right Direction is a brutally honest, deeply personal, and eye-opening guide for anyone considering entering a relationship with someone who has children.

Written by Derek A. Brown Sr., a seasoned parent with over 30 years of real-world experience—including his start as a non-biological parent—this guide delivers 28 no-fluff truths every potential stepparent must consider before taking the plunge.

From navigating the emotional landmines of exes and firsts, to understanding the full scope of raising a child that isn’t biologically yours, this guide asks the hard questions most people avoid. With practical insights, raw truths, and heartfelt advice, Steps in the Right Direction helps you assess your readiness for blended family life—not just for your sake, but for the children’s too.

Whether you're contemplating love with a single parent or already navigating the highs and lows of step-parenthood, this is your blueprint to making informed, compassionate, and courageous decisions.

Read it before you commit—because love might bring you to the door, but preparation will help you stay.