Dating should be fun, but finding a compatible partner—especially in the Kink or ENM communities—requires more than just "good vibes." It requires the right questions.

The Vibe Check: The Complete Vetting Suite is the definitive physical toolkit for the intentional dater. This bundle includes all three professional-grade card decks, designed to help you navigate everything from a casual first coffee to the complexities of alternative relationship structures.

What’s Inside the Box:

• The Essentials Deck (50 Cards): The foundation for any date. These questions dig into core values, lifestyle habits, and long-term compatibility without the "interview" feel.
• The ENM Deck (20 Cards): Specific, high-impact questions for Ethical Non-Monogamy. Cover poly-structure, scheduling, boundaries, and STI testing protocols with ease.
• The Kink Deck (20 Cards): Specialized vetting for BDSM and Power Exchange. Safely explore interests, hard limits, and experience levels before you ever head to the playroom.

Why Physical Decks?

While digital resources are great for a quick glance, these physical cards are designed for presence.

• High-Quality Tactile Finish: Durable, professional card stock that feels as premium as the conversations you’re having.
• Analog Connection: Pulling a card during a "State of the Date" meeting or a cozy night in creates a focused, shared experience that a phone screen can’t replicate.
• The Perfect Gift: A thoughtful resource for friends entering the dating pool or couples expanding their horizons.

The Expert Edge

Created by Kristyn, LPCC-S, these aren't just "icebreakers." They are curated clinical tools turned into a conversational game. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, or Kink-identified, this suite gives you the language to ask the hard questions—so you can get to the good parts faster.

Specifications:

• Total Cards: 90 unique vetting questions.
• Format: Three distinct physical decks in a custom-designed collector’s box.
• Shipping: Ships within 3-5 business days.