The House of Self

Values are the foundation. Boundaries are the walls. Access is the doors. Perspective is the windows. Meaning is the roof. When something in your life feels confusing, it usually belongs to one of them — and this workbook walks all five, in the order a house actually gets built.

A 63-page workbook across five sections: what your week says you actually value, what your walls are doing and what sits behind them, who and what has access to you, which windows are narrow and which are wide, and the meanings you are living under. It closes on how the five affect each other — why a doors problem turns into a windows problem, and why the roof is the last thing you are asked about rather than the first.

This is the five House of Self worksheets worked in full, together with the connecting material that is not in any of them. Fillable on your computer, or print it and write by hand.