SINGLE SH*T AND RELATIONSHIP RUCKUS: Why Your Relationships Suck and What to Do About It

The Bitter Truth.

You are, so many people, currently playing a game with rules you don’t fully understand. You think you’re failing because of "bad luck" or a lack of "good options," but the truth is much simpler and much, much more painful: you’re trying to create a "Hell Yes" life using margarine and calling it butter. 

In other words, you're looking for results you actually want while using the wrong damn ingredients.

If your dating life feels like a second job and your nights are spent wondering if you’re just "clueless," "broken," or that the world is "unfair," it's because you’ve been settling for "whatever’s in the container" instead of the gourmet life you actually desire. 

You aren't "missing" red flags; you are negotiating with them because you believe that's "just the way things are" and as as a result, you’re terrified of an empty life and heart. 

This isn't a pep talk. It’s a look at the arsonist (and you'll know what this means soon). 

Inside the Ruckus:

• The Smoke in the Fridge: Recognizing the scent of ash before your entire life becomes unrecoverable. 
• The Negotiation Ingredient: Why you overlook a lack of respect just to avoid being alone. 
• The Fraudulent Persona: How handing out "counterfeit currency" (a fake version of yourself) is ensuring you never buy a real life. 
• Magic or Mess: A brutal audit of whether you’re in a partnership or a hostage negotiation. 

Stop faking the funk. You can keep trying to adjust a recipe that doesn’t work, or you can finally admit the kitchen is on fire and start building something that doesn’t burn. 

The choice is yours: Go back to your margarine, or step up and look in the mirror and start getting really acquainted with the life you really want to live.