The 5 P'S Of Choosing a Spouse

The most important decision you will ever make —after giving your life to Christ — is who you will marry.

Yet too many good people make it the wrong way: by butterflies, by pressure, by a pretty face or a full bank account — and then spend years paying for a choice their feelings made in a moment.

In The 5 P's of Choosing a Spouse, Kofi Amankwaah (Apostle Dr. Elisha K.A.) draws on more than thirty years of pastoral ministry — and his own decision to choose a wife by purpose rather than passion — to hand you a clear, practical filter for choosing a life partner God's way.

Inside, you will discover:

• The 5 P's every God-honouring choice must pass: Purpose, Person, Pace, Partnership, and Peace • Why "butterflies" are a dangerous foundation — and what to build on instead •

How to know your own God-given assignment before you choose a partner for it

• The Four C's God looks for: Character, Calling, Covenant, and Capacity

• 30 God-centred questions to ask before you ever say "I do"

• How to heal and choose again if you have chosen wrong before

• A complete 40-Day Prayer Guide: "God, Show Me My Spouse by Purpose"

Whether you are single and waiting, dating with intention, or a pastor or mentor walking others through this season, this book gives you the wisdom to choose well and build a marriage that stands. Mentor & Counselor Notes are included throughout for one-on-one and small-group use.

Stop choosing by butterflies. Start choosing by purpose.