GOODBYE DOUBTS!
Learn the art of aligned decision making and become crystal clear on what you truly want.
Learn the art of aligned decision making and become crystal clear on what you truly want.
You are in the midst of a dilemma, not knowing in which direction to go. You’ve found a bunch of arguments in favour of the different options..
...and a bunch of arguments against them all. But it doesn't matter! You can't make up your mind anyway . And you can’t sleep. And you can’t focus at work… The indecision holds you in a firm grip…
Should I go back to my ex? Should I accept the offer to write a doctoral thesis? Do I want to have kids? Greece or Spain next summer? Should we rent that apartment which is extremely cozy, yet more expensive than we had hoped for?
And if indecision is a familiar guest in your world then you also know that it tends to keep you stuck, and with a feeling that you are missing out on life.. Because moving on, seizing opportunities, getting on trains… require you to make decisions and to dare to make the scarier ones.
Not knowing how to find out what you truly want makes you make decisions that feel arbitrary. You don’t trust that they are the right ones, so even afterwards you keep wondering whether you should have made another choice or even regret the choices that you made.
Obviously, all this can make the most beautiful smorgasbord of opportunities feel like a total curse.
What you want is to know that the decision you make is the right one. You want to have an answer to what you truly want so that the mental wrestling can finally stop… And you definitely want to be able to jump on the trains of goodness that come your way and feel that you are in movement and know where you are heading in life.
Besides the classical lists of pros and cons and the sweaty sleepless nights, you have probably tried the trick to ask your friends for their opinion and had endless discussions on the topic with a bunch of people. You have read reviews and listened to expert advice on relationships, careers, investments or whatever your indecision is related to. Always just getting more aspects to consider..
Goodbye Doubts! is not about pros and cons, it's not me giving you advice on what is the best option. Goobye Doubts! is about you getting in touch with your inner knowing about what is right for you.
Trust me, even if it sounds like nothing you could do, you'll make it. It's not rocket science, it's just about shifting the approach.
You'll make it and in 70 minutes you'll know what you want.
If someone has been plagued by indecision, that's me!
Having learnt what it's all about and how to get out of it has been revolutionary for me and that's why it feels important to me to share this with you.
It was actually after my last intense indecision episode, which happened a year ago, that I got the idea to teach aligned decision making and help others out of their angst.
What happened then was that I had applied for a job, my old job. Not because I necessarily wanted it, but because I thought that it could be a good idea somehow. You know, working with old colleagues, in my field of expertise, making some money… And the job would be mine…if I wanted it..
But the thing was that I couldn’t make up my mind! What did I actually want? What was the good way to go in this case?
This triggered intense indecision in me. I was pretty desperate! Until I was going for the formal interview..
On the train to go there, I happened to listen to a podcast in which they talked about what hides behind an “I don’t know” and that made the penny drop for me… A sudden, but very very clear, insight to what the truth was.
And then I remembered that I actually have some great methods to get in touch with the essential self, the part of us which is not coloured by our upbringing, norms and ideals, but which carries a longing for us to expand and live to our fullest potential as human beings.
I remembered that I was a coach… hehe..
Using my tools, I saw clearly that I didn’t want the job and that’s how it went. I didn’t go for it… and I felt like a winner!
My approach then is exactly what I teach in Goodbye Doubts!.
Goodbye Doubts! is a 70 minutes pre-recorded video course teaching you a set of tools for aligned decision making.
The truth is that you will probably need only one of them to find out what you actually want, now and forever after... But I've decided to teach the whole package anyway. In that way, you get to try them out and find out which one works best for you.
In Goodbye Doubts! you to get perspectives that will take you out from the place in your mind where you are stuck with your dilemma. You will learn how to get in touch with your essential self - the part of you who totally knows what is the right decision for you - by using your body and learning how to interpret its signals.
By the end of Goodbye Doubts! you’ll have clarity on what you truly want in relation to the issue that you are bringing, and you will have everything you need to make aligned decision in the future.
What you get: A 70 minute pre-recorded workshop + a workbook