Honour Thy Father and Mother: God’s Pathway to Long Life and Generational Blessings

From the very beginning, God designed the family as the first institution on earth. At the center of this sacred design stand parents—imperfect yet God-ordained vessels entrusted with the privilege and responsibility of raising the next generation. It is no surprise, therefore, that the command to honour our parents appears among the Ten Commandments, carrying with it a divine promise of long life and well-being.

This book, Honouring Our Parents, was born out of a burden to revisit and reinforce this timeless command in our present age. We live in a world where cultural shifts, busyness, and the pursuit of independence have gradually eroded the value of parental honour. Many today struggle with how to honour parents in complex situations—whether because of generational gaps, strained relationships, or societal pressures that prioritize self over family.

Yet, God’s Word has not changed. To honour father and mother is not a suggestion, but a divine command that unlocks blessings both for individuals and for society at large. In these pages, we will explore what Scripture truly teaches about honouring parents, the profound benefits attached to obedience, and the practical ways we can walk in this command in today’s world. We will also examine how to extend honour not only to biological parents, but also to spiritual parents, mentors, and other parental figures God has placed in our lives.

This book is not simply instructional—it is transformational. My hope is that as you read, you will be challenged to reassess your attitude toward your parents, inspired to live counter-culturally in showing honour, and equipped with practical wisdom for daily application. Above all, I pray that these words will help you experience the blessing that flows from living in obedience to this command, thereby strengthening families and glorifying God.

May this work remind us that honouring our parents is not just about them—it is about us, our destiny, and our witness to the world of God’s Kingdom values.