Asked and Answered: A Tarot-Inspired Contemplative Guide for Relationship Clarity (Digital)
Stop circling. Reclaim your energy.
This guide is intended for those at the beginning or dating stages of a romantic partnership. Meant to assist those trying to decide whether to or not to move forward, step back, or let go, this guide was written to help you access and clarify your deepest knowing and inner truth.
Through seven guided contemplations encompassing 57 carefully crafted questions, this resource is intended to help you uncover the clarity you've been unable to find on your own. By the time you finish working through this guide, you'll have a much clearer understanding of whether this relationship is asking you to deepen, leave, or change.
What does "Tarot-Inspired" mean?
While the guide's reflection questions were written by Kael (not AI), the context was provided by the card spread that served as the guide's foundation. Each contemplation begins with a Tarot or oracle card. Some contemplations focus solely on reflective questions, while others include insights from the decks' companion guides in addition to reflective questions.
Essentially, this guide is a universal reading that allows each person to discover insights most relevant to their situation.
The 7 Contemplations
- Anchoring Contemplations
- Inquisitive Contemplations
- Structural Contemplations
- Peaceful Contemplations
- Liberating Contemplations
- Movement Contemplations
- Final Contemplation
Sample Questions:
- Does continuing this relationship in this way at this time bring relief or burden to my nervous system?
- Am I seeking something from this person or relationship that isn't truly there?
- Would I choose this relationship if I felt safe, secure, and stable without it?
- Am I trying to talk myself out of what I know to be true?
- Is liberated love the foundation of this relationship?
Take your time.
This is meant to be a contemplative and explorative experience—journaling while using this guide is highly recommended. Any and all questions asked are intended to clarify, not judge or shame.
At the end of the day, the goal is simple—to live with radical honesty and integrity, honoring the truth in our hearts as we navigate our relationships with self and others.
May this guide assist you in accessing clarity and peace.
May you experience greater healing, relief, and joy as you honor your inner truth.
*While the original intention of this guide was to provide clarity for someone navigating a romantic partnership or dating relationship, the same questions can easily be applied to friendships, familial bonds, or connections with communities, activities, and experiences.