9 Steps for Getting Your Kids to Cooperate

Teach Cooperation, Not Compliance — A Free 3-page Parent Resource from Cooperative Kids

Are daily battles over chores, screen time, or attitude wearing you down? This 9-step Cooperation Exercise handout helps parents turn frustration into teamwork.

This practical, research-informed guide and instructions walks you through a simple activity that teaches children the difference between what parents have to do and what they choose to do—and why cooperation matters in both directions.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

• Build mutual respect and appreciation at home.
• Help kids understand responsibility and gratitude.
• Replace power struggles with calm communication.
• Use natural consequences to teach accountability.

Created by Cooperative Kids, this free download gives you an easy, proven tool to strengthen your family dynamic—without lectures or threats.

We’re thrilled to offer this handout as a free download to help families foster cooperation and respect at home.

If you’d like to help us keep producing tools like this, we welcome donations in any amount—no obligation, just heartfelt appreciation for your support.