I’M NOT GOING BACK Breaking Old Patterns, Protecting the Woman I’ve Become & Refusing to Settle for Less Ever Again

I’M NOT GOING BACK: Breaking Old Patterns, Protecting the Woman I’ve Become & Refusing to Settle for Less Ever Again

From Hurt to Healing — Book Fifteen

By Tan Yaya | Healing With Yaya

I didn’t come this far just to go back to what broke me.

I’m not going back to begging.

I’m not going back to chasing.

I’m not going back to proving my worth.

I’m not going back to ignoring red flags because I’m afraid of being alone.

I’m not going back to shrinking myself to make other people comfortable.

And I’m definitely not going back to abandoning myself.

I’M NOT GOING BACK is for the woman who has done too much healing to keep repeating the same lessons.

This is about recognizing old patterns before they become new problems.

Choosing consistency over chemistry.

Peace over familiarity.

Reality over potential.

Standards over temporary companionship.

And self-respect over anything that requires you to lose yourself just to keep it.

You can miss someone and still leave them behind.

You can forgive without reopening the door.

You can love someone and still choose yourself.

You can appreciate what the past taught you without volunteering to relive it.

You already know what going backward costs.

This time, protect the woman you fought so hard to become.

The past may call your name.

You don’t have to answer.

You’re going forward.

And this time, you’re taking yourself with you.

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By Tan Yaya | Healing With Yaya