Bride Price Scandal

You love each other. You both love God. You're ready.

But you're still waiting.

Waiting for the money. Waiting for the negotiations. Waiting for a process that seems to have no end — while your relationship quietly pays the price.

You're not alone. Across Africa, thousands of Christian couples are stuck in this exact place. And the saddest part? Nobody in the church is talking about it.

❌ You're watching your relationship strain under the weight of a financial system God never designed.

❌ You're accumulating debt before your marriage has even begun.

❌ You're making quiet compromises you never planned to make — because the waiting has gone on too long.

❌ You've looked to your pastor for guidance and been met with silence.

❌ You've searched the Bible for a verse that commands bride price as a condition for marriage. You couldn't find one.

Because it isn't there.

Bride Price Scandal is the book the African church has needed for a long time.

It asks one honest, urgent question: Does the Bible actually require bride price for a Christian marriage to be valid?

The answer — examined carefully, passage by passage, argument by argument — is no.

This book will show you:

✅ What God actually designed in Eden — and why it requires no financial transaction

✅ Why the Jacob argument (the most popular biblical defence of bride price) completely falls apart under scrutiny

✅ The real financial and spiritual cost lobola places on young families

✅ How cohabitation is the direct child of delayed marriage — and why the church's silence is complicit

✅ What building a marriage God's way actually looks like — free, simple, and holy

This is not an attack on African culture.

This is a defence of African Christians — the ones being crushed between cultural expectation and the God who already said "It is finished."

If you're a couple that's been waiting too long — this book is for you.

If you're a parent holding the keys to your child's future — this book is for you.

If you're a pastor who knows something needs to be said — this book is for you.

📖 Bride Price Scandal — Bakang Legodimo

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