ED Family Resource Guide- Meal Times

Mealtime Support — A Family Guide for Eating Disorder Recovery

Are mealtimes the most dreaded part of your day?

If you are supporting a loved one through an eating disorder, you already know that sitting down to eat together can feel like the hardest thing in the world — for them, and for you.

This guide was written to change that.

The Eating Disorders Australia Mealtime Support Guide is a practical, evidence-based resource for families and carers who want to support their loved one at mealtimes with confidence, compassion, and consistency — based on Family-Based Treatment (FBT) principles used by clinicians worldwide.

What's inside:

✦ Why mealtime support matters — and the powerful role you play in recovery ✦ What the eating disorder does to the brain during meals — so you understand what you are witnessing ✦ The 6 key principles of effective meal support — Confidence, Consistency, Calm, Coaching, Modelling, and Don't Collude — each with clear how-to guidance ✦ Word-for-word scripts for what to say — and a list of phrases that make things harder ✦ The validation framework — a step-by-step script for when distress escalates ✦ How to prepare for the meal, support during it, and manage the critical 60 minutes after ✦ A six-step distress response guide for crisis moments at the table ✦ Four printable worksheets — Family Mealtime Plan, Distress Profile, Mealtime Scripts, and Carer Self-Care ✦ Key Australian and international resources and helplines

This guide is for you if you are:

A parent dreading every dinner. A carer who doesn't know what to say when distress escalates. A family who has been told to support mealtimes but hasn't been shown how. Anyone sitting at the table with someone they love, doing their best, and needing more tools.

What you receive:

📄 Comprehensive PDF guide — delivered instantly to your inbox 🖨️ Print at home or at any print shop 📱 Read on any device — phone, tablet, or computer ♾️ Yours to keep and return to before every difficult mealtime

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This guide is for educational purposes only and is designed to be used alongside professional eating disorder treatment — not as a replacement for it. Always follow the specific guidance of your loved one's clinical treatment team. In a medical emergency call 000 (Australia) or your local emergency services.