The Send Survival Guide

The SEND Survival Guide

A Parent's Guide to Navigating a System That Wasn't Built for You

Have you ever left a school meeting feeling overwhelmed, confused, or like nobody was really listening? Have you found yourself Googling EHCPs, SEND support, or school refusal at 2am, trying to work out what to do next?

I created The SEND Survival Guide because I've been there too.

Written by Stacie Standing, founder of NorthStar Advocacy and a mum of six, four of whom are neurodivergent, this practical 34-page guide combines lived experience with professional SEND advocacy knowledge to help families feel informed, empowered, and less alone.

Inside you'll find:

💚 Easy-to-understand explanations of the SEND system and EHCPs.

💚 Practical advice for school meetings and difficult conversations.

💚 Guidance on gathering evidence and keeping records.

💚 Tips for navigating school anxiety and emotionally based school avoidance.

💚 Email templates, checklists, and printable parent tools.

💚 Reassurance that you are not "asking for too much" by advocating for your child.

Whether you're just starting your SEND journey or have been fighting for support for years, this guide is designed to give you the confidence, knowledge, and practical tools to take the next step.

Because no family should have to fight for support alone.

Format: Instant Digital Download (PDF)

Length: 34 pages

Author: Stacie Standing, Founder of NorthStar Advocacy

Please note: This guide is intended to provide information and practical support based on lived experience and SEND advocacy knowledge. It should not be considered legal advice, and guidance may change over time.