Still Here: When They Won’t Go to School — A Parent’s Guide
When your child won’t go to school… and tomorrow is coming
You’ve probably been here already.
They won’t get out of bed, or they say “I can’t go” — and everything escalates from there.
You don’t know whether to push or back off.
And by 8am, you’re exhausted.
This isn’t defiance. It’s overwhelm.
And when a child feels overwhelmed, pressure often makes everything escalate — not settle.
This guide will help you handle that moment more calmly, with:
• What to say (when everything is escalating)
• What to avoid (that makes it worse)
• Where to begin (when you feel stuck)