The Unified Parenting Toolkit: The Alignment Worksheets

Diagnose Your Dynamic. Audit Your Blueprints. End the Conflict.

​Parenting shouldn't be a battlefield between you and your partner.

​Most couples don't fight because they don't love their children. They fight because they are operating from two different, invisible "Blueprints."

​This free toolkit contains the foundational diagnostic tools from the book Unified Parenting: The Structural Guide to Ending Conflict. It is designed to move you from "Good Cop / Bad Cop" to a united team in one sitting.

​What's Inside:

​✅ The Blueprint Audit:

A guided reflection to uncover the "ghost rules" from your own childhood. Find out why you react so strongly to specific behaviors (like defiance or big emotions) and how your upbringing is sabotaging your current partnership.

​✅ The Parenting Style Scorecard:

Are you an "A" (Strict/Authoritarian) or a "B" (Soft/Permissive)? Take the assessment to see where you fall on the Regulation vs. Connection spectrum.

​✅ The Interaction Map:

Once you know your score, map it against your partner’s. Discover if you are in a "Classic Collision" (The Pendulum Effect), a "Rigid System," or an "Unbalanced Load." Understanding your structural dynamic is the first step to fixing it.

​✅ The Values vs. Methods Worksheet:

Stop arguing about the small stuff. Use this protocol during your "Neutral Time" to distinguish between your shared long-term goals (Values) and the specific tools you use to get there (Methods).

​Why is this free?

Because a secure child needs secure parents. Disunity is the enemy of stability. Use these tools to bridge the gap between your two parenting styles and build a home anchored in peace.

​Format: Digital PDF (Printable A4 & US Letter)

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