The Boundaries

By Kimani Upshur, M.Ed.

Boundaries are gates, not walls - and this book teaches teens to set them with a kind "no" instead of a guilty one. From the people-pleaser's formation and the guilt spiral to scripts for the actual moment, it covers boundaries with friends, in dating and crushes, with family, and on the phone - plus how to hold them when the punishment and guilt trips come. Grounded in Scripture and written for ages 13-18, it protects everything worth protecting: your body, your pace, your goals, your future.