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So, you're venturing into the world of online
dating, or perhaps you've already tested the
waters but you're not having much success.

Either way, this email is all about helping
you upgrade your online dating game.

Here are a 5 things to keep in mind:

1: Be Honest From the Get-Go
Never, ever lie on your dating profile. Not
only will it make things harder for you if
you end up forming a connection with someone only
to have to explain a lot of lies away, but it
is ultimately setting yourself up for continued
failures and dating disaster.

Let her get to know you for you, whether you
feel there are things you need to improve on or
not, the only way to truly find a connection is
to allow yourself to be vulnerable and just put
yourself out there: flaws and all.

2: Upload Multiple Photos
What some of us believe is a great profile photo
sometimes isn't always the best, so be sure to
offer a variety of photos so potential matches
are able to get a really good idea as to whether
they're physically attracted to you.

3: Personalize Your Profile
Don't just fall into the rut of writing some
scripted, over-used bio. Instead, put some real
thought and effort into it. Share your thoughts,
feelings, hopes and dreams and allow yourself to b
be quirky! Your profile should portray your most
authentic self.

4: Don't Bring Up Your Past
Your online dating world should evolve around the
present, not the past. Don't bring up ex-girlfriends
or ex-wives and don't tell potential matches what
you believe failed in past relationships. This isn't
the time and it will only turn women off. Instead, focus
on what you are looking for in a partner and what you
have to offer.

5: Don't Over-Compliment
While everyone loves receiving compliments, when
it comes to online dating you want to be careful not
to over-do it, especially if you're complimenting
her physical appearance (since at first, that's the
only thing you really have to go by).

In addition, don't call her beautiful, gorgeous, or
sweetheart in your initial messages. Show her some
respect rather than sexualizing her in any way. The
last thing you want to come across as is yet another
dude with bad pick-up lines.

Instead, be witty, funny and engaging. It'll pay off
and help you stand out from the massive crowd.

In tomorrow's email, I'm going to tell you exactly
how you can be sure that she's into you (or not)
in the first 15 minutes of the date.

This is a real game-changer. Don't miss it.
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