Ballad of Better Becoming: A Memoir

by Ashley Carter Cash

She learned early that love was something you got by being looked at.

She was thirteen when she started spending herself on it. The rooms were too old for her. She got into them anyway. The drinking came with the rooms. The drugs came with the drinking.

By twenty she had the kind of life people spend a career reaching for, and she could only stand being wanted for so long before she had to find out what it took to lose it.

So she found out. Over and over, on purpose. Every time she came back up she was certain this one would go differently.

Better next time. Better tomorrow. Better the next chance, the next city, the next man, the next version of herself one rung up.

In 2018 she was dead for nine minutes.

She came back without the ladder.

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What this is:

A debut memoir built like a song. Verse, chorus, bridge, fade-out. Ten years in the writing, from a fifth-step inventory scrawled after a jail cell into something with a harder question underneath it: why we keep believing there’s a better version of us out ahead, waiting to be arrived at, when the only version that exists is the one our hands are making today.

Not a recovery memoir. Nobody gets fixed.

Something more interesting happens instead.

If you’ve read Mary Karr’s Lit or Lidia Yuknavitch’s The Chronology of Waterand wanted that book without the tidy ending, this is that book.

About the Author

Ashley Carter Cash is the creator of Disorderly Content, a Substack on neuroscience, addiction, spirituality, identity, culture, and the mechanics of becoming human—and Divine Revisions, a literary exegesis series on sacred history as psyche map.

The 18 Years of Silence is her first exegesis.

Ballad of Better Becoming is her first book.