EBOOK: HOW TO BREAK FREE FROM ROMANTIC LOVE

Let me say it the way it is:

"THE ONE" FOR YOU DOES EXIST!  

The problem is that you believe "The One" has nothing to do with yourself. The problem is that you believe "The One" is the person that will "complete you."

Please read this story about a woman Seeking for Love outside of herself:

"I am really craving for a relationship where I feel valued, loved and respected", she said it with such conviction that I almost fell for it.

I was giving this session of spiritual guidance to a new client referred by another one, who was a dear friend of hers. And that very same week, I had received in my office 2 other people with that very same phrase and way of thinking about Love and Relationships.

And I answered all of them with the same question:

"Okey, and, How do you show yourself Love, Value and Respect? Because you know that IT ALL HAS TO START WITHIN YOURSELF, right?"

The World has taught us all that we are to find somebody to love and be loved by in our life. Yet, the most important part of the equation in finding that partner to share your life with, is that it all begins with YOU.

The truth is that we have been fooled about Love. And one of the MAIN reasons why many men and women in the whole world feel violated and not love-deserving is this:

They definitely do not know what True Love is. Both men and women mistake Love for Infatuation, Charm or just Sexual Attraction.

WE ALL DO AT SOME POINT, IN FACT! 

And that´s Okey!

I remember all my failed relationships and I used to believe that "there was no one in the world who would ever love me." Then the thought "evolved" into "It´s because Nobody understands me or knows who I am!"

When I finally hit the utmost wall with my head I said: "I am done with Love. It does not exist!" 

All I had accomplished by then was:

1. 3 TOTALLY FAILED long-term relationships with women whom I blamed for not fulfilling me as a man,

2. Feeling totally unhappy and believing crap about True Love,

3. Becoming bitter and critical about other people´s relationships and couples I saw holding hands and faking, according to me, their happiness in front of everybody,

4. And as you may have guessed, I was the worst prospect for you to get into a relationship with me back then, unless you had self-destruction tendencies, of course.

I am just being totally transparent to you. I am no expert in Psychology. I am an expert in FAILING SO HARD AND SO MANY TIMES IN THE PAST AT LOVE, that one day I decided to follow the track back to all my failures and find out what the heck was wrong with me, not the others.

And I found just amazingly valuable information for me to overcome the idea that somebody out there was going to make me feel happy and loved.

My name is José Castorena, I am a Healer, Spiritual Guide and Best Selling Author in Spanish, and all I share with you in this EBook is some amazing and mesmerizing facts about

YOUR NATURE IN LOVE. THE NATURE OF LOVE FOR ALL OF US, REGARDLESS OF CULTURE AND RACE OR RELIGION.

We all have allowed to be lied to about Love. Even in our time, we do not know what it is precisely, whether an idea or a feeling, or simply a utopia that we can feel once in a lifetime for only one person. And it is precisely this pitiful idea, what has made us all give up in ALL OF US the idea of ​​original, True love.

But as in every great story told, in this one, the story of us all, there is still "HOPE." And it has to be created by ourselves. There is no other way. The new model of relationships proposed in this Ebook will definitely shake your whole world with its premises. 

Especially the premise of "FINDING THE ONE" you are supposed to Love in Life. 

Years ago, I had a relationship with an amazing American girl, who precisely went through life with this idea that she needed to FIND THE ONE FOR HER. Back then I was in a total co-dependet state and believing that someone else had to make me feel loved, so as you may have guessed:

OUR RELATIONSHIP WAS SCREWED FROM THE VERY BEGINNING!

She was looking for The One, and I was seeking for somebody to make me feel deserving of love. Both of us looking for it OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES. 

We both "HOPED" for Love and certainty to emerge magically and hold us together and be happy ever after. But Hope, in any area of our lives means nothing if you do not see that the greatest resources come from within yourself.

And it is absolutely necessary to transcend Hope, and adopt the SECURITY of discovering our true Nature of Love.

And another thing in my Ebook is very clear:

The old model called a COUPLE definitely MUST disappear if you want to survive the old way people are still relating and finding constant frustration, jealousy, attachment and regret. This was never meant to be for us all. We chose it.

This new model of relationship is based on individual potential that is always eager to develop and grow. And then relate to another person at the same level of comprehension, to continue growing with passionate love for each other, and where admiration comes first, and Love just emerges naturally. 

"I call it a SYNERGY, where two potentials make one great result: Fulfillment and Plentifulness in Life for both. No heart left behind." 

The SYNERGY model of relationships is international, it does not attach to any religion, culture, sexual preference, social status, or belief. It is applicable to both men and women of the world because we all share the same programming in our brains as a Species, with no differences but all the similarities. 

In this Ebook you will find: 

THE FUNDAMENTAL MYTHS OF LOVE
and how they have influenced generation after generation for frustrating and codependent relationships everywhere in the world.

THE POISON CALLED ROMANTICISM
and learn why "being romantic" is not an advantage at all when it comes to successful and passionate relationships.

THE TYPES OF LOVE ACCORDING TO THE WISE GREEKS
to be able to understand why you have love for some people, but will not commit to a permanent relationship with some of them. And hey, everybody needs to know where the actual word comes from in the first place.

THE LONELY ROAD TO LOVE
and let's not be afraid of the word "lonely" because in the end of it all, everything started with you, and only you.

SYNERGY VERSUS COUPLE
for you to get to know the proposal of this new concept and model of relationships that makes everything way easier instead of complicating your life in the vital area of Love.

SELF-LOVE, THE KEY TO A PLENTIFUL LIFE.
it is of vital importance to comprehend and integrate the constant enhancement of your own personal standards and self-image to make a great match for a relationship. It all starts and ends with you. 

And I must say this, as for Love and other aspects of our being there are formulas that have been proven to work or to definitely suck in every manner. What I am proposing to you is to take a look into this formula and the characteristics of it, which I have proved in my own life with great success after making terrible mistakes and taking horrible decisions in the past. 

My life is perfect now, you know why? 

Because I have come to realize that Progress is way better than Perfection. And both DO NOT COME TO US, THEY EXIST WITHIN OURSELVES. I have finally understood the true Nature of Love, which holds the whole Universe together, including you and me; my wife and children and me.

Your life, I am sure, is perfect, too. 

Do you know why?

Because every single moment holds a perfect opportunity for you to learn the new, and unlearn what is old in your Mind and in your Heart. And it all comes down to paying attention NOT TO what you think you need in a relationship, but rather THE QUALITY OF PERSON YOU ARE and what this person will bring TO THE RELATIONSHIP.

Welcome to the world of SYNERGETIC relationships, where YOUR FIRST AND ONLY LOVE IS  ALWYAS YOU. AND THAT IS JUST PERFECT!

Welcome to the opportunity that this times are giving you to know and love yourself even more than ever! And start or find a fulfilling relationship with somebody who vibrates and radiates at your same level. Just be very mindful that the level you vibrate in, is the very same level of person you shall attract.

As everyting else: IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOU, MY FRIENDS!

Now, I know you don't know me at all, but trust me on this: if you want to rebuild or start a fulfilling and amazing relationship based on individual Personal Growth in order to maintain the key to all ever-lasting and loving relationships, then you're up for an experience with me.

I will be there for you, as well, to guide you every step of the way with the concepts and ideas I share with you in this EBook.

It is my pleasure to remind you that your First Love forever, has always been and will always be YOU.

Welcome to the world of Synergy, and say Goodbye to what is just another Couple together.

See you on the other side of anything that you have chosen to be your own enemy of Love.

I want to share another story with you:

I've seen it over and over again: when you surrender yourself to Love, it'd better be Love for yourself, too.

A girlfriend of mine fell for a guy long time ago. She was very successful and an amazing leader woman. The guy Just could not believe someone like her could Love him. But he was ready to grow, too.

Love is a great push for personal growth. But when you Love yourself, in the first place, there is personal Transformation, as well.

So they evolved as a couple and he grew to be vey successful, too. She had supported his career, both with money and morally in every sense.

Finally they decided to have children, because he was already so successful, he could now afford it.

She quit her job and dedicated totally to raising their two children.

Years later, he "fell in Love" for another woman.

And guess what?

YES, She was almost basically a Replica of my friend when he firstly had fallen for her.

The moral of this story is:

NEVER FALL OUT OF LOVE WITH YOURSELF.

Only that Will make you Always thrive and grow, and Develop personally, and never look back on it.

There is something heavier than Just Love to make you decide to be with only one person for the rest of your life APASSIONATELY (I use the Metalanguage here).

And that is ADMIRATION, which Causes DESIRE (what elevates you to being master of your life).

So, never give up on you. You are Worthy of excellency, and completely invaluable in the Love market .

I thank you in advance for just reading about the possibility of finding yourself in order to Give yourself totally evolved into the relationship you choose, and decide to build on those foundations, blessings to you all,

José Castorena