The Dating Game Audiobook by Lanie Stevens

Change the dynamic. Stop wasting time. Choose differently.

If you’re tired of ghosting, mixed signals, and putting energy into men who stay vague, inconsistent, or half-available, this book is for you. Not because you’re doing something wrong — but because most dating advice never teaches women how attraction and pursuit actually work.

The Dating Game isn’t about pretending to be aloof or following scripts. It’s about understanding the emotional and energetic dynamics that shape dating interactions, and learning how to move through them with clarity and self-respect. When those dynamics change, the experience changes too.

This is about becoming the woman who no longer waits to be chosen — because she’s clear about what she’s choosing.

What this book focuses on

Dating becomes exhausting when effort and interest are misaligned. You give more. He gives less. You wait. He drifts. This book breaks down why that pattern happens and how to interrupt it without becoming guarded or hardened.

You’ll learn how to shift the energy of early dating so attraction builds naturally, interest is clear, and pursuit comes from the right place. Not through manipulation, but through presence, boundaries, and emotional calibration.

The goal isn’t control.

It’s discernment.

Inside the book, you’ll learn how to:

• recognize the behaviors that signal genuine interest versus convenience
• shift the dynamic so effort and investment are balanced
• understand what men respond to emotionally — and what quietly turns them off
• navigate mixed signals without overanalyzing or self-abandoning
• express interest with confidence while maintaining your standards
• stop overgiving in the hope of being chosen
• walk away cleanly when something isn’t aligned, without regret or resentment
• communicate attraction without chasing or posturing
• remain open and feminine without losing your center

The emphasis is always on clarity — not performance.

Who this book is for

This book is for women who are dating again after disappointment, starting over after heartbreak, or simply done repeating the same dynamic with different men. It’s for women who want to enjoy dating without anxiety, confusion, or constant self-questioning.

You don’t need more rules.

You need a better read on the situation — and a steadier way of responding to it.

What begins to change

As your internal orientation shifts, dating stops feeling like a guessing game. Conversations feel clearer. Decisions come faster. You become more selective without becoming closed off.

Men either step up — or step out — and either way, you’re no longer stuck wondering where you stand.

That’s the real power shift.

The point of the game

You’re not here to perform for attention. You’re here to choose what aligns.

The Dating Game gives you the insight and confidence to do exactly that — without rushing, chasing, or settling for crumbs disguised as potential.