What Am I Modeling

A Reflection Worksheet on Kindness, Bias & Everyday Influence

Children don’t just learn from what we say directly.

They absorb the tone, reactions, humor, and commentary woven into the atmosphere of home.

What Am I Modeling? is a guided reflection worksheet designed to help parents gently examine how their everyday interactions — from public behavior to entertainment choices — shape their child’s understanding of dignity and respect.

This resource invites you to reflect on:

• How you treat service workers and strangers

• How you respond when inconvenienced

• The tone of your humor and commentary

• The messages embedded in your entertainment choices

• How you model disagreement across differences

• What repair looks like after missteps

This worksheet is not about guilt.

It’s about awareness.

Inside you’ll find:

✔ Structured self-reflection prompts

✔ Balanced checklists for honest assessment

✔ Space for written insight

✔ Repair-focused growth questions

✔ A calm, printer-friendly design

Kindness isn’t agreement.

It’s dignity.

Whether used independently or alongside other resources in the Kindness in Practice series, this worksheet offers a thoughtful starting point for cultivating a respectful atmosphere at home.