Don't Bring The Wound To The Wedding

Getting married won't heal you.

It will magnify what's already in you.

"DON'T BRING THE WOUND TO THE WEDDING" is a 30-day guide for Christian singles

who are tired of dating from brokenness and want to heal BEFORE saying I Do.

Inside you'll learn:

✓ 3 types of wounds people bring to marriage

✓ How to forgive, heal, and be whole in singleness

✓ 30 days of prayers, journal prompts, and scripture

✓ How to know you're truly ready for covenant

Stop bleeding on people who didn't cut you.

Heal first. Then choose by purpose.

Perfect for: Singles 18-45, Premarital classes, Youth Pastors

You can't marry your way out of a wound.

So many hurting people step into a new relationship — or even a marriage — quietly hoping the other person will finally heal what the last one broke. But a spouse is not a doctor, and a wedding is not a treatment plan. The person taking you as a husband or wife did not come to be your physician.

In this warm, honest book, Kofi Amankwaah ( Apostle Dr. Elisha K.A. )— a pastor and counsellor of more than thirty years — walks you gently from the pain of your past to the freedom of loving again from a place of wholeness.

You'll learn how unhealed hurt secretly sabotages new love, the difference between a partner who supports your healing and one you expect to BE your healing, how to know when you're truly ready, and the real, practical work of healing: naming, grieving, forgiving, and rebuilding. There's even a chapter of grace for those who already married while wounded.

Faith-grounded, non-denominational, and full of hard-won wisdom, with reflection questions after every chapter — perfect for personal healing, mentoring, or small groups.

Heal first. Then love — free.

★ Instant digital download (PDF) — read on your phone, tablet, or computer, or print it out.