When Everyone Says No: The Unity Test Workbook by Mayowa Phil-Segynola

I was 17 when a man of God told me, "Everyone is going to tell you this person is not for you, and you will keep insisting that he is."

Eight years later, I did exactly that. I was engaged, the date was set, and I had seven pages of Scripture "proving" he was my husband. My family said no. I didn't listen. God canceled that wedding anyway, and I now thank Him for it every day.

This workbook is for the woman who is sure he's the one while the people who love her aren't.

It's also for the friend, sister, or bridesmaid who can see what she can't.

It won't tell you to break up. It'll help you slow down long enough to hear God clearly.

Inside you'll find:

• My story, and a friend's story about the bridesmaid who walked away
• What unity is and isn't (because not every "no" is from God)
• Sort the Voices, a worksheet for weighing who is speaking into your relationship
• The 7 Checkpoints of the Unity Test
• How to read your results, plus a 21-Day Brakes Plan with words to say to him
• A prayer for clear eyes
• A page for writing down every word God has spoken over you
• For the friend who sees it: how to warn someone you love without losing her

Tags: Christian dating, discernment, Christian singles, relationship workbook, faith, marriage, godly counsel