It's Not That I Don't Want To

I was 45 when I found out.

And I didn't figure it out myself — my daughter did. She handed me a quiz and I took it mostly to prove her wrong. I scored high. Very high. And I sat there flabbergasted, because every single question described me perfectly. All my kids told me. Things I thought were just my personality. Things I'd been apologizing for my whole life.

This is the first of four books about what those things actually are.

Fifty things you do.

Not starting even though you want to. Reading the same paragraph four times. Twelve half-finished projects. Losing an entire afternoon to something that didn't matter. Being late even when you left early. Putting something somewhere safe and never seeing it again.

For each one: what it actually looks like, why your brain does it, what it's probably cost you — and one thing to try. Not a list of options. One thing. Because most of us already know we should be more organized. What we needed was somebody to say plainly what to do.

How it's built

Don't read it front to back. Use the index at the front, find something that sounds like you, and turn to it. One entry per page, all the same length and shape. Read one, put it down, come back whenever.

Set in a typeface and spacing chosen for readers with dyslexia or visual stress, because plenty of us have both.

What it isn't

Not a list of hacks you've already read. Not going to tell you to try harder or be more disciplined — you've been attempting that for thirty years and it hasn't worked, because it was never possible.

And not therapy or medical advice. I'm a woman who found out at 45 and worked out what actually helps. Where you need a professional, the book says so plainly.

56 pages. Instant download. Yours to keep.

If you can't afford this right now, email me and I'll send it to you free. No questions asked.