Seduction king

Seducing a woman you're attracted to doesn't all come down to your physical appearance. Engaging her mind with intellectual conversations, flirty debates, and witty jokes can go a long way in making yourself more attractive to her. If you want to stimulate a woman's mind the next time you're flirting with her but you're not sure how to actually go about doing it, don't worry. We've compiled a list of tips you can use to mentally seduce your crush.

Things You Should Know

• Seduce her with your humor and wit. Tell funny personal stories, point out silly situations when you’re together, or make callbacks to previous convos.
• Be excited about her passions and ask her to teach you about them. She’ll be attracted to you because you’re genuinely interested in her.
• Start a friendly debate to stimulate her intellectually. Pick a silly, non-controversial topic and let the flirty challenge ensue.

1Make her laugh.

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2. By cracking a joke, you'll make the conversation more exciting. A more exciting conversation means that you look better, too. Having a great sense of humor also makes people appear more intelligent. So to liven up your chat and seduce your crush, don't shy away from using your best comedy material.^[

• Try looking out for potential "callbacks" in conversation. This refers to picking something from earlier in the convo and mentioning it again in a silly way.
• Or, focus on being unexpected. Humor usually comes from taking your audience by surprise.
• You can't go wrong by relying on personal stories that have a track record of getting a laugh.
• If every time you tell the story about falling at your high school graduation it's met with giggles, definitely use that with her.

2 Be excited about her passions.

1. If you're enthusiastic about her favorites, your convo with flourish. She may love anything from sci-fi novels, to entomology, to Anne Bonny. No matter the subject, for her, it’ll be totally thrilling (and attractive!) to get to fangirl over her favs with you. Not only will she love your positivity, but it'll also keep your conversation heading in a super stimulating, seductive direction.

• Say something complimentary. "Ah, I can totally see why you love sci-fi novels. They can be so exciting."
• Ask her a question. "Entomology, that's impressive. What made you first so interested in insects?"
• Or, use a personal connection. "Anne Bonny the pirate, right? That's so cool. I love the Pirates of the Caribbean movies. Is she in those at all?"

3 Learn from her.

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2. Use her expertise to create a flirty, intellectual discussion. If you ask, you’ll probably find that she has some unique skill totally mastered and that she’d love the chance to tell you about it. Not only will you pick up some new knowledge, but you crush will be engaged in the conversation — and attracted to you.

• You can start with a compliment. "Wow, you really know your stuff."
• Next, share your interest. "I'm actually super interested in computer software, but I don't know much about it."
• Finally, ask her to teach you. "Could you teach me a bit about that? I'd love to learn from you."