you matter

Guilt is a heavy burden—but it’s not the truth. When you’re a mom, it feels like everyone has an opinion on what you should be doing. You should be breastfeeding. You should be bonding. You should be active, present, and perfect

you don’t have to do it all. And no matter how hard you try; you will never meet the impossible standards the world sets. The guilt is real—but it’s not yours to carry.