Selflessness Made Simple

The whole culture says *you first.* This book says there's a better way — and it's simpler than you think.

*Selflessness Made Simple* is the counter-cultural character book for a self-first age. Across twelve short chapters, Kimani Upshur walks you through three movements of a generous heart: **See** — notice people the way Jesus noticed them; **Prefer** — put others first in honor, love, and forgiveness; **Serve** — act on what you see with your hands, your wallet, and your time.

From the upside-down order of Philippians 2 to the towel of John 13, from the Good Samaritan's road to the widow's two coins, from cheerful giving to seventy-seven-times forgiveness — each chapter pairs a Scripture with plain, warm teaching, three reflection questions, three concrete action steps, and a written prayer. You'll also learn the boundary the church rarely teaches: healthy selflessness is *not* self-erasure. Jesus rested, said no, and withdrew — and so can you.

Warm, direct, and honest — never shaming, never doormat theology — this is the generosity-of-heart companion to *Self-Control Made Simple* (which covers restraint; this one covers giving yourself away).

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