Leave 'em or Love 'em: 8-week Decision Coaching Community

For high-functioning individuals who feel stuck in an unfulfilling relationship.

You're ready to be loved the way that you need to be loved.

But...you don't want to fall for the 80/20 trap either--trading a solid 80% relationship for the risk of being single long-term or settling into a relationship that ONLY provides the missing 20% and nothing else.

On this journey, we'll address:

What does a solid, healthy relationship look like?
Is it a "red flag" or over-thinking or over-functioning
Should I stay? Why?
Should I leave? Why?

For this group, step into clarity, discernment, and radical self-belief — with support every step of the way.

The 80/20 principle in relationships says that:

In a strong, successful relationship, your partner generally meets the vast majority of your core emotional, physical, and practical needs, which makes the foundation of the 80%.

The remaining 20% often consists of superficial traits, annoying habits, or minor incompatibilities.

But sometimes, relationship conflicts can cause us to fixate on the 20% that is lacking, causing us to trade a solid 80% relationship for someone who only provides the missing 20%, and later realizing the new person lacks the substantial foundation that we gave up.

Are you receiving a strong 80% in your relationship?

Do you feel that your partner is lacking 10%, 15%, 20%, 25% or more?

This community is for you if…

You're in a mostly-good relationship that's not abusive
You wonder if what you're missing is big enough to be a problem
You're a high-functioning professional who sometimes take on too much
You're don't want to make the "wrong" decision about your relationship

You’re a solver, a fixer, a doer.

But when it comes to your relationship, you feel stuck in indecisiveness.

You deserve clarity and discernment

WITHOUT

over-functioning, over-thinking or regret.

Imagine if you could flip the script.

As a psychologist and relationship coach. I specialize in helping high-functioning individuals build clearer, more balanced relationships—without losing themselves in the process.

Right now, your pattern looks like:

I'm comfortable in this relationship → my need isn't being met by my partner → frustration/disappointment/loneliness/resentfulness → today was better →

I'm happy/content/feeling ok →

but, why do I still feel unfulfilled/unhappy/like something's missing?

Instead of that yo-yo pattern, we'll place it with a healthier, more stable pattern.

You can feel centered.

You can feel purposeful.

You can feel connected.

In the 8-week decision journey, your new life will look like:

✅ Making healthy decisions about your relationship

✅ You only carrying emotional weights that belong to you

✅ You feeling supported (as a partner)—not just relied on

PLUS, you'll get:

Awareness
Discernment
Emotional resonance
Certainty
Practical tools
Community

WHO is this for?

High-achiever

You’re a high-achiever who is intelligent, productive & capable.

Thoughtful

You understand that your relationship deserves serious consideration and deliberation.

Real

You want more than motivational quotes — you want real tools and real change.

Community

You value a supportive space to learn, celebrate wins, and ask hard questions.

What You’ll Get Inside (based on tier):

🔹Make your decision in 8 weeks or less

🔹8 weeks of Live Group Coaching on Zoom (or through email-based support)

🔹 Online pathway including brief, informative videos and reflection exercises or worksheets

🔹 Access to a small, private online community

🔹 Customized action plan to extend your learning

🔹 Discounted 1-on-1 supplementary coaching sessions with DrT

🔹 Certificate of Completion, celebrating you as a "Decisive Lover"!

Want to spend another year in limbo? Move out of the stuck spot that you've been in. Meet clarity & fulfillment.

Join us and discover the decisive, discerning, loving partner already inside you.

Schedule your Discovery Call!

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Schedule your Discovery Call! ⋆

Now you're on your way!

Before you register for Leave 'Em or Love 'Em, let's have a short conversation about your hopes for this experience.

Schedule your Discovery coaching session!

This introductory discovery coaching session will be brief.

It allows us to determine which level of coaching involvement best fits your relationship needs.

If you choose a level of involvement that includes video sessions, we'll also discuss your availability for our current coaching groups.

To schedule your Discovery Call, CLICK the link below -

BOOK MY DISCOVERY CALL

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

If I'm not happy with my purchase, can I get a refund?

Please contact us right away if you're ever unsatisfied with your coaching services. We do our best to ensure all clients are happy and receive value through our services.

Due to the nature of this coaching group, our policy does NOT offer refunds once payment has been processed.

Please read all details related to this coaching group BEFORE you sign up and BEFORE you process payment, as all purchases are FINAL and non-refundable.

If you have extenuating technical challenges with our coaching group, contact us directly (tmedley@drtmedley.com) to discuss options for accommodations.

How does appointment scheduling work?

Instructions for scheduling your 1-on-1 coaching sessions will be provided once the online coaching group begins.

Is it possible to buy coaching more than once?

Sure! Contact your Coach directly or reach out to tmedley@DrTMedley.com to express your interest in scheduling additional sessions or other coaching groups.