The Attraction Map Workbook
About This Workbook:
Attraction can feel powerful and sometimes overwhelming. But not all attraction is created equal. From a nervous system perspective, attraction can arise from emotional safety; or from nervous system activation and unpredictability. Understanding the difference can change everything. This workbook helps you map and understand your own attraction
patterns so you can make intentional relational choices.
This Workbook is a part of the Relational Awareness Series:
Calm vs Activated
Attraction Map
Understanding
how your nervous system experiences connection and what your attraction
patterns reveal about your relational history.
Calm Attraction
Relaxed and
at ease
Comfortable
expressing yourself
Curious,
not anxious
Steady
connection
Activated Attraction
Constantly
thinking about them
Anxious
when they go quiet
Emotional
highs and doubt
Intensity =compatibility?
This workbook is designed to be used independently as a self-guided tool or alongside individual therapy. It is not a diagnostic instrument and does not replace professional mental health treatment.
Instant download. Personal use license. Licensed therapists may print for active clients.