Parenting High-Needs Children: Why Your Nervous System Matters Most
Your child's behaviour is their mode of communication. They are not being difficult, but they do refuse to 'fit in' to the moulds created for them by society.
It may be triggering everything in you, and even though you know you shouldn't snap, you just can't help it. You can even hear your own parents in the way you respond and you're ready for it to stop.
The part that 'normal' parenting advice misses....this is the mirror neurons of the brain in action. There is nothing wrong with you or your child. You are both incredible! You just have unmet needs.
Learn how meeting your own needs will shift your child's nervous system and lead to a calmer relationship for all involved.