Healthy Marital Intimacy A CONVERSATION & DISCERNMENT GUIDE

A Conversation & Discernment Guide for Serious Dating and Engaged Couples

Sexual compatibility involves much more than chemistry. It includes honesty, values, emotional safety, consent, health, healing, expectations, boundaries, faithfulness, and the ability to communicate with maturity.

The Healthy Marital Intimacy Conversation & Discernment Guide from Wives in Waiting™ helps serious dating and engaged couples have the important conversations that are often avoided until after marriage.

Inside this beautifully designed workbook, you’ll find 56 thoughtful, non-graphic questions created to help you understand what each person may bring into marriage—including beliefs about sex, past experiences, unresolved wounds, sexual health, pornography, consent, fidelity, expectations, communication patterns, and readiness for healthy marital intimacy.

This is not a list of explicit questions about sexual positions or techniques. It is a guided tool for gaining clarity about the history, values, healing, character, and mindset that can shape a couple’s future sexual relationship.

This guide will help you discuss:

• Beliefs and messages you learned about sex
• Relevant sexual and relationship history
• Healing from shame, betrayal, coercion, or abuse
• Emotional safety, boundaries, and consent
• STI testing and responsible sexual health
• Pornography history, current use, and digital boundaries
• Expectations concerning affection, desire, initiation, and frequency
• Emotional and sexual faithfulness
• Communication during changing seasons of marriage
• Areas that may require counseling, prayer, testing, healing, or more time

What’s included:

• A professionally designed 13-page PDF workbook
• 56 numbered conversation and reflection questions
• A conversation covenant for creating a respectful environment
• Trauma-informed guidance for sensitive disclosures
• Writing space for personal reflection and shared discussion
• A final discernment page for identifying concerns and next steps
• Immediate digital download

Perfect for:

• Women discerning a serious relationship
• Engaged couples preparing for marriage
• Premarital counseling conversations
• Christian relationship coaches and mentors
• Small-group or Wives in Waiting™ Academy discussions

Healthy marital intimacy does not begin with performance. It begins with two people who can tell the truth, respect one another’s boundaries, take responsibility for their healing, and communicate with wisdom and grace.

Prepare with wisdom. Speak with grace. Discern with courage.

Important Notice

This workbook is an educational conversation and reflection tool. It is not a substitute for professional medical care, mental-health treatment, trauma counseling, legal advice, or premarital counseling. If a conversation reveals abuse, coercion, threats, stalking, or current danger, prioritize personal safety and seek qualified support.

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This is a digital PDF product. No physical item will be mailed. Because digital products are delivered immediately, all sales are final. Your purchase is for personal use only and may not be copied, shared, resold, redistributed, or used commercially without written permission.