Before the Nikah — Free 5-Question Starter

Before the nikah, most couples talk about the wedding. Almost no one talks about the marriage.

In our deen there's no dating — so you walk into one of the biggest decisions of your life sometimes knowing surprisingly little about what the other person actually expects. This free starter gives you five of the most important conversations to have before you say qabool.

Five honest questions, across the five areas year one tends to test the most:

• Money & Mahr

• Family & In-Laws

• Conflict & Communication

• Deen & Worship

• Dreams & Deal-Breakers

Each question comes with a short note on why it matters — and space to write. Answer on your own first, then sit together and compare. A difference you find here isn't failure; it's a gift you found before, not after.

This is a free taste of the full Before the Nikah workbook — 80+ questions across 9 sections. Download it, work through it together, and keep what you write private.

A discussion tool, not a substitute for scholarship. For your marriage contract, mahr, and conditions, consult a qualified local imam.