I AM THAT GIRL
I AM THAT GIRL
Volume 1: Becoming Her From the Inside Out
What if becoming THAT Girl has less to do with how you look and everything to do with how you think?
Let's talk about what makes a woman THAT Girl.
I'm not talking about her appearance, her wardrobe, her career title, her relationship status, or how successful her life looks on social media. I'm talking about the woman who knows who she is, understands her value, trusts herself, and refuses to allow life's disappointments to determine who she becomes.
Because being THAT Girl is a mindset.
I AM THAT GIRL, Volume 1: Becoming Her From the Inside Out is a personal development and mindset transformation guide written to help women recognize their worth, strengthen their confidence, and develop the inner qualities needed to navigate life with greater intention, courage, and purpose.
Drawing from my personal experiences as a wife, mother, entrepreneur, executive professional, minister, and confidence coach, I share the lessons I've learned through rejection, career setbacks, financial challenges, unexpected life transitions, and the moments when I had to remind myself who I was.
Throughout this book, we'll explore six foundational factors that shape the mindset of THAT Girl:
- Resilience: Learning how to rise when life knocks you down without allowing your circumstances to define your future.
- Extraordinary: Embracing what makes you different and giving yourself permission to go beyond ordinary expectations.
- Self-Confidence: Developing genuine trust in yourself instead of depending on the approval and validation of others.
- Courage: Learning how to take action, speak up, and advocate for yourself even when fear is present.
- Tenacity: Developing the determination to stay committed to what matters, even when progress is slow and life becomes difficult.
- Strategic Thinking: Learning how to approach life with vision, purpose, foresight, and intentional decisions that position you for success.
Each factor combines personal storytelling, practical insights, psychological principles, and guided reflection questions to help you examine your thinking, challenge limiting beliefs, and make meaningful changes in how you approach your life.
This book is for the woman who knows there is more within her but is ready to stop questioning herself long enough to begin developing it.
Whether you're rebuilding after a setback, pursuing a new opportunity, struggling with self-doubt, or entering a season of personal transformation, this guide invites you to look inward and begin doing the work of becoming.
I wrote this book because I believe every woman deserves the opportunity to recognize her value, understand her identity, and show up in life without constantly shrinking herself to fit someone else's expectations.
You do not have to have everything figured out to begin. You do not have to be perfect, and you do not need permission to become the woman you were created to be.
Your confidence comes from your knowing, not your showing.
It's time to become intentional about the woman you're becoming.
I AM THAT GIRL. And you are, too.
By Rhonda E. Augustus
Author | Confidence & Strategic Communication Coach | Speaker