Waiting is Not Strength by Lavina Mirón

Waiting is often celebrated as a virtue—an expression of strength, patience, and hope in relationships. We tell ourselves that holding on, giving someone time, or enduring silence shows loyalty and resilience. Yet, beneath this cultural ideal lies a more complicated truth. Waiting can sometimes be a mask for deeper insecurities, unmet needs, and a reluctance to assert ourselves. Instead of fostering connection and growth, it can trap us in cycles of disappointment, self-doubt, and emotional stagnation.

This book challenges the common narrative that waiting is inherently noble or necessary. It explores how waiting without clear boundaries or honest communication often prevents us from honoring our true selves.

By examining the dynamics of waiting through a lens of agency and assertiveness, this book invites you to rethink what strength really means in love and connection. It offers guidance on recognizing when waiting serves you—and when it’s time to reclaim your power, speak your truth, and walk away.