INNER 003· What Do You Need in a Relationship? – A five-minute guided self-reflection tool (Eng Ver)

What Do You Need in a Relationship? – A five‑minute self‑diagnosis

A five-minute guided self-diagnosis to identify the need beneath the hurt.

If relationships keep leaving you anxious, overlooked, lonely, drained, or unsure of yourself, the problem is not always that you chose the wrong person.

Sometimes the problem is that you have never had clear language for what you need.

You may keep saying, “I just want someone who loves me.”

But do you need to feel valued? Truly seen? Safe? Free to be yourself? Met with depth? Able to relax?

This compact guided tool helps you stop treating your needs as a vague feeling — and start naming them clearly.

Inside, you will:

• Explore nine core relationship needs.
• Pick the statements that feel true for you.
• Read gentle interpretations that mirror back what those choices suggest about your needs
• Reflect on real moments from a past or current relationship.
• Identify the one need that sits at the centre of your relationship experience.

You will leave with:

My most central need in a relationship is ______.

Not a label. Not a diagnosis.

A clearer language for what you need, what hurts when it is missing, and what you no longer want to silence.

11-page digital self-reflection tool · English + Traditional Chinese · Instant download

You cannot ask clearly for what you have never learned to name.

You have named what you need. The deeper question is: why has it been so hard to ask for it, protect it, or choose relationships where it can be met?

You can try out product : The Version of You in Love – A Tool for Deciphering Your Relationship Patterns

Important note

This digital workbook is designed for educational and self-reflection purposes only. It is not therapy, counselling, medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or crisis support, and it does not replace care from a qualified mental-health or healthcare professional.

Please pause and seek appropriate professional support if any exercise brings up overwhelming distress, traumatic memories, thoughts of self-harm, or concerns about your safety.

Format & How to Use

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