The Art of Knowing: Discernment in Relationships

The Art of Knowing: Discernment in Relationships

By Poppy Ervilawaty

Hi, I’m Poppy.

This book is something I wrote straight from the heart, for anyone who’s ever loved deeply, been misunderstood, or simply wants to understand themselves better.

I believe that peace doesn’t always come from finding the right person, but from learning to see clearly, to recognize what your soul truly needs and to honor it without guilt.

In The Art of Knowing: Discernment in Relationships, I invite you to walk with me through moments of reflection, gentle lessons, and honest self-discovery.

This isn’t a book about judging others, it’s about understanding yourself: your patterns, your boundaries, and that quiet voice inside that always knows the truth.

Inside, I’ll share simple reflections, journaling prompts, and real-life insights that can help you:

▪️Recognize healthy and unhealthy patterns in relationships.

▪️Strengthen your emotional intelligence and communication.

▪️Set loving but firm boundaries.

▪️Choose peace over confusion.

▪️Trust your inner compass, your discernment.

Whether you’re healing, growing, or simply learning to love with wiser eyes, I hope this book feels like a soft companion, something that listens, reminds, and gently guides you back to yourself.

With love,

Poppy Ervilawaty